Friday, June 08, 2012

Gay Love Relationships: Does It Work?


These days, there are so many love relationships among gay people. They are the bi-sexual where two men enter into a love relationship. Does this kind of relationship work? Young people are not the only one involve in this kind of relationship. There are many matured persons which involve themselves to a gay love relationship. No one can tell if this relationship would actually last. There are many cases wherein gay people maintain the good relationship they have for each other through the test of time. In some countries gay marriage is accepted. This kind of love relationship is no longer an issue for some people. As long as these two people involve are happy doing things together.
Religious organization does not want this kind of relationship. In some community, this act is still not accepted. These gay people are accused to be immoral and unethical. They are not a good example to the youth and that they destroy that true meaning of love.
Love and intimacy grow only and is sacred between one man and one woman only. But for gay love relationships, one man and another man is engage in an intimacy and love. How does this kind of act happen? A man will be falling in love with another man? Is this true? As mentioned, there are countries where same sex or gay marriage is present and accepted. There is a high possibility that between these couples, love do exist. They want to be together for the rest of their lives.
For me, this issue becomes immoral only because people think that way. They believe that God did made one man and another man to be together. Man is made for woman. I am not saying that I am in favor of same sex marriage although I cannot say that I am against. These couples are human. This fact makes things easier to understand. Humans commit mistakes. We cannot simply judge these people by their acts.
Let’s put ourselves in their situations. Try to reflect on how they feel as a person when people around them mistreat them and judge them. A person needs to love and to be loved. When he cannot find love with the opposite sex, same sex or gay love relationships will then takes place. A man long for a love, he needs to be loved but he feels unsatisfied with the love of the opposite sex. He feels that he needs more than an opposite sex can give. When a man enters into gay love relationships, they are doing this for purpose. They allow themselves to be together for the reason that they need each other.
“No man is an island.” Everybody needs companion because simply people cannot live alone. Try to think this way; would you be happy and contented when you are with someone whom you are uncomfortable with? Would you like to spend the rest of your life with someone you don’t love? Gay love relationshipsexist because these men found contentment and true love among themselves. They cannot feel the same love and care from the opposite sex.

1 comment:

  1. As gay men, we struggled through and endured all the challenges inherent in finding true love with another man in this homophobic society.How to sustain a healthy, intimate partnership
    with him once we found our ideal guy and decided to form a commitment with him.


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